[nudony]

After reading some posts on another thread about closet exhibitionism, and the fact that many of us seem to be married to one, I figured the topic merited its own thread.

Both women in my life have been closet exhibitionists. Although their individual take on it was very different.


I've talked about my fiancée. She was raised in a very strict environment, being told from a young age to be "ladylike" and "proper." Being a successful professional, this "code of conduct" is pretty ingrained in her.
I've talked about her standing around, naked, in front of open windows with blinds rolled up and curtain drawn with high visibility from the street. Her response to my inquiry about her pattern has been either ignorance: "oh...really?!? No way!!" or flippancy: "Bah...no one can see me clearly anyway..." (when in fact her nudity was quite clear to by-passers."
She also often goes out braless or undie-less; and even though her lack of underwear is easily discernible, she still invariably asks me if it's obvious. And since I always tell her she's good to go (I kinda have to), she gets validation instead of just admitting she likes having her small tits bouncing and her nipples poking through the thin fabric.

Someone once talked about "plausible deniability." That sums it up pretty nicely.

My fiancée's closet exhibitionism became quite clear during our vacation in St Martin. From deciding to go bottomless on our nighttime stroll on the public beach, to her behavior at the nude beach. At the nude beach, she slipped and fell while wading in the water. That was accidental. What wasn't accidental was her falling again as I tried to pick her up, and landing on her back spread-eagled. And then turning around and tumbling forward, ass in the air.
Now...a "true" exhibitionist would have been content just lying on the beach, sun tanning legs open and enjoying people looking at her. But it was clear that my girl was enjoying something different.

Being a closet exhibitionist, the thrill she was getting was from the "unknown", or "anonymity." Be it going bottomless on a public beach at night, or flashing her juicy while rolling around in the surf, or going underwear-less, or standing naked in front of the window; it is the "knowing" that people could see her, but "not knowing" if she was actually being seen.


With my ex it was different; but similar. She became a closet exhibitionist as a result of becoming a nudist.
She started out very shy; and although her upbringing was not as strict as my fiancée, she had hang-ups about people seeing her naked. She gradually overcame her hang-ups by making nudist friends; and found her "naked confidence." And then things went in an unexpected direction.

She started shaving bald; something that she had previously said she would never do. She started sitting and lying around with her legs open right by the pool, or while lotioning or talking to friends. I asked her about this sudden change, and she replied either ignorance: "oh really? I wasn't paying any attention..." or flippancy: "no one is paying attention to me anyway, why should I worry about it?"

At that point her closet exhibitionism was confined to the nudist environment. But then it started spilling into the "real" world. We were coming back from the resort one day; and she claimed she was hot from spending the day naked in the sun. She opted to just wear a sarong on the ride back. I was driving and the next thing I knew she was half asleep, and the sarong was unfastened and her tits were out. A little while later the sarong was on the floor. She claimed it had accidentally fallen off. I bought it; until a following trip to the resort where she decided to wear a sarong again for the trip. It was partially tied and her tits were hanging out from the side; and she was holding them in place with her hand. Halfway down the road her tits were completely out. We hit a residential area before entering the resort, there were people walking down the street, and she made no effort to cover up. And whereas people are supposed to ring at the resort gate dressed because of the neighboring homes, she just jumped out completely naked to buzz us in.

She would do such things several times; I have no idea how many drivers-by or residents have seen her naked from their cars or home. What I believe happened is that nudism triggered her closet exhibitionism, and she used our nudist lifestyle as an excuse to explore "exhibiting" herself, under the guise of being a "confident nudist."


In both cases I haven't been able to get them to admit the "thrill factor" that was obvious in their random acts of "covert" exhibitionism. But their attitudes have led me to believe that no matter how much your significant other denies it, there is a bit of exhibitionism in all of them. It just hasn't found it's way out yet.