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Originally Posted by Couplein2MFM

We have enjoyed reading your thread and have talked about how you and your wife have managed to have a regular "select" friends with who you both play. It definitely has a strong appeal to us.

We have been involved in the lifestyle now for just over ten years and have run the gamut of what, how, who and when we play, meet others and make connections. At this point we seldom do the swinger club scene, it has actually been about 4 years since we last attended one and that was to visit old friends at a club located in Louisville, KY. We also don't do much meetings with people off the lifestyle websites anymore either.

As far as rules go, we don't really have a long list of steadfast things. It is all about enjoyment. She is free to hook-up with who she wants and when she wants but her preference is MFM with me being a part of it. Most times when I am out of town for work or she is on the road she does not play but by her choice. As far as my hooking-up with other ladies she has not set any hard rules per se but she prefers me to hook-up one on one without her participation. From her perspective she says she still gets some tinge of jealousy watching me. But, at the same time she will usually point out a lady that she knows I am attracted to and suggest the lady and I "go" and have some fun. It all works for us at this point so we are both happy.

We did meet a gentleman a few weeks ago who was from Connecticut that she had found online through a lifestyle site. He is single and advanced in being a DOM, which is something she wanted to explore. After he and I talked several times and he did numerous web cam sessions with her she wanted to meet. He was traveling to Nashville, TN and so we made a visit and arranged to meet for a drink at a place out in West Nashville. He seemed to be very respectful and there was an obvious attraction so we collectively went back to his hotel with him at the Courtyard Downtown. It was a very different experience for both of us, being in his room versus our hotel just for starters. Me watching and not being actively engaged was also a first. she really enjoyed the night, there was not any humiliation, bondage or pain but he definitely was very dominant and brought out a submissive side to her that we had not experienced before. So, from time to time the websites and clubs can hold an attraction at least for us.

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Our rules are for STD pritection... considering what we do, its the best way to go .