With true first time meets, e.g. bar pickups, a couple of them were within 2 hours from 'hello', to 'oh god'. Having said that, I don't consider myself particularly good at quick pick ups, I tend to get into conversations and try to become their 'friend', so a lot of net time investment for only a few of these adventures. With another half dozen or so, who I had met on line, and had done some chatting and flirting with, it was often 15 minutes from 'hello' to 'naked, balls deep' during the first time we met face to face. I probably limit myself, as I'm not a big drinker, even when I have gone out to bars, so I've never had sex with someone who I didn't know (and remember) at least their first and last name.
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