It was mostly a high school thing for me, due to lack of options.
These incidents were around age 17 for me, hard to recall all of the details because I'm 31 now. My ex-wife, high school sweetheart at the time, had two best friends. The trio was inseparable. I'd say they were all gorgeous by my standards at the time. I say "at the time" because I prefer 25 and up, and my tastes have changed a bit since then (cup sizes, pubic hair preference, etc.) The blonde friend was attractive, but I crushed on the brunette friend for the majority of high school and my early 20s before we all fell out of touch.
It was something we sort of eased into, again due to lack of options.
The first major incident was camping. We shared a single room tent with the blonde and her boyfriend. We had one of those stupid roll the dice games and basically played with a makeshift curtain d****d between the two couples. Announcing what we rolled and passing the dice through the curtain each time.
At junior prom, we had a hotel room with the blonde again, the brunette was still a virgin but dating someone. So us two sexually active couples alternated between who was fucking in the tub and who had the main room.
Senior prom, same friend + hotel room. That time, we just utilized both beds in a low lit room at the same time.
But the most memorable was shortly after the brunette and her boyfriend started having sex. The six of us were in the brunette's boyfriend's hot tub. His parents were gone. It was just a social occasion, that turned into suggestive banter, which turned into a makeout fest...
From there, it got heated. The brunette's facial expressions suggested she was being fingered. The blonde and her boyfriend threw their suits out of the tub and just started going at it. My ex-wife sat in my lap and slipped her suit down far enough for me to penetrate her from behind. Next thing you know, out comes the brunette's tits... something I'd been secretly hoping for. So with my ex and I being the only ones still mostly wearing suits I took her bottoms completely off and pulled her tits out of the top of her suit. From there, it's just a blur of open fucking in a hot tub. It was pretty hot.
Once the ex and I got married, things kinda changed. We had kids, she turned into a prude, and I was overprotective anyway. And all I learned is: being overprotective denies you some interesting situations and if a woman's going to cheat on you, she's going to do it no matter what... so why put effort into prevention? You just look like a possessive jackass. Don't worry about it until it happens and if you're not into the cuck scene, drop her and move on. That's what I did.
Wife number 2 has been a great experience.
She wasn't a virgin when I got a hold of her so I don't feel as overprotective of her sexuality. She's a closet exhibitionist and closet bisexual. I'd always show up to her busy apartment complex when she was in some state of undress with the blinds completely open at night. She wears low cut little black dresses and can't keep her legs closed. She was the first one to lose a bathing suit at the local clothing optional beach. And regarding the bisexual thing... I've seen her porn and she's admitted to masturbating after prison sex scenes in Orange is the New Black. I'll let her admit that one on her own.
We're very open talking about sex. Her and I have talked on the subject and have both admitted we would be down to fuck with others around given the situation; we're not PLANNING it, but if a situation naturally escalates to that, it's going to happen. Somehow that escalated to fucking in front of an audience if we ever run into one of those adult shops with the infamous glass rooms for viewing. She even mentioned going to a strip club because she wants to watch me get a lapdance. I see potential there, though I admit, it's not really my thing. Strippers and pornstars don't really interest me. It's all fake. And fake stuff does not do anything for me. I think that's why I dig voyeurism and revenge porn. That said, I'd be down to see where that strip club visit leads with the wife though.
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