My ex's first ENF/casual nudity experience - I've probably shared before - but...
It was at a nudist resort. She didn't want to go; as she didn't want anyone to see her naked, or be around naked people. So we discussed, negotiated...and finally she agreed with the strict stipulation that she wouldn't get naked and we'd stay away from other people. So I called the resort and they agreed that she would not have to go nude on her first visit. To me it was better than nothing...
So we went; I got naked and she didn't. Our first encounter was with the owner, who was just wearing a T-shirt with his cock hanging underneath. My wife made some derogatory comment about his "cock-shirt" but we signed up nonetheless. We wandered around the place and we came across the club house. It was empty. She said she wouldn't mind disrobing to get in the hot tub as long as there wasn't anyone around. So I grabbed our towels and we got in the hottub.
We were actually having quite a bit of fun in there. Then we decided to exit the hottub; and that's when a naked dude walked in. He was a college classmate and had recognized me. The towels were across the room and we had no choice but to stay naked in front of him. My ENF wife immediately hid behind me, obviously panicked. He started talking to me, and he just wasn't going away. He then started talking to her; and she had no choice but to emerge from behind me to respond. I knew he was gay, so I wasn't worried about him "getting off" on seeing her naked. Nonetheless, he checked her out; probably because he was wondering why/what she was hiding. He finally left and my wife didn't say a word. I thought to myself: "That's it! It's done; she's never going to let anyone else see her naked ever again! Nudism is over!"
We headed back to the car. I figured it was all over and we were going home. But much to my surprise she decided she wanted to stay a little longer. So we walked around for a bit and went back to the club house. And another dip in the hottub.
We finally called it a day and headed back to the car. She was wrapped in a towel. I popped the trunk and reluctantly pulled out my clothes. Hers was in the front seat. Suddenly, I heard the owner addressing her from the front office. He was asking her about her day at the resort. And standing there by the office door with his "cock-shirt." I thought: "Oh no! Not again!" And as I closed the trunk I saw that my wife had ditched her towel! The guy then invited us to come chat with him in the office before leaving. I was going to say: "No thanks" for the sake of my wife not freaking out. But before I got a chance to say a word my wife just started walking towards him, completely naked! I followed her, in disbelief. And she just walked inside the office, and proceeded to chat with the owner, naked in plain view of him! We must have been in there 10-20 minutes, my wife engaging in conversation and walking around the office naked. Finally we left and she just gave me a quirky smile as headed back.
Her sudden change from reluctant to ENF to casual nudity that day was never really discussed. My theory on it was that "getting caught" naked triggered something in her. The hottub dude had seen her naked without her "permission." So she decided to regain control of her nudity by choosing the "viewer" of her naked body. The owner presented her with that perfect opportunity: she was going to be naked in front of him to "undo" her ENF moment and prove to herself that she ultimately "gets to choose" who sees her naked. It's bizarre to me; but women's minds work in curious ways.
It would take a while longer before my ex fully embraced casual nudity. After that first experience she still avoided being nude in crowds and hesitated disrobing in new places. But meeting more confident nudist women, making nudist friends helped her progress to casual nudity...but it took time.
I realized one day that she'd "finally gotten it" when we met up with some friends and headed out to the resort with them. She got naked first thing when we got to their place. Then she decided to ride out to the resort naked. At new resorts you usually have to check in dressed; she decided to check in naked. She socialized all day. And when we got home she decided she wasn't going to wear clothes at home anymore.
After that she was all about casual nudity!
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