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Originally Posted by stevetelly

My wife and I are a mid-fifties New England couple who love bondage games. Specifically, she loves when I blindfold her, ballgag her, tie her up and use her as my sex toy. Or sometimes I won't tie her, and she'll pleasure herself with a sex toy while I watch. I've told her for years of my biggest fantasy; to allow another man to enter the room while we are engaged in one of our sessions, and let him watch the whole show. He'll see me use her as my toy, or watch her use her favorite toy, even bringing herself to climax. The condition is that she won't see him, as she will be blindfolded. Let me be clear that I'm not using OCC to solicit volunteers. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice as to how to find a safe, likeminded individual to make this fantasy a reality. Advertising in a Personals section? Finding a friend of a friend? I've never done anything like this, and would love some advice. Thanks.

My wife and I have used swinglifestyle.com to attend parties. The purpose behind attending the parties was to meet couples we found interesting and then set up a meeting at a later date. This worked out great for us...