First of all well done to Ulsafiu for starting this thread, I think its great and I've loved the discussion. I have to admit that I've privately messaged Ulsafiu on this topic as well and we had a great exchange of messages.
My opinion, based on my relationship with my wife Beth and previous relationships is as follows:
- Girls have the right to enjoy themselves with the guy they are with, at the time they are with them. Our time is now - other guys had their time before us - its all the same
- The guys that dated Beth had a right to enjoy her body and her pussy and I'd be disappointed in her if she hadn't done her best to enjoy them and let them enjoy her body
- Some guys just used Beth for a casual fuck. That was their right and I'm glad they both had fun
- Some guys dated Beth for longer and took their time to learn what she liked sexually, take her to places she hadn't been before and to get her to do the things they liked. All these things helped Beth to be someone who enjoys sex and likes to please
- Some guys were special. Some were one offs who were just great in bed and still make her wet when she thinks about what they did together. Other guys made her feel special as part of a relationship and that made sex great and she can still look back and enjoy those memories. All of that helps to keep her sexually interested and active
Getting Beth to talk about the fun she had with other guys makes us both horny and often leads to great sex. If you are jealous about your wife or gf's past then just remind yourself who is enjoying her pussy right then !
All men get jealous, its part of being a man. However, All the women I know and all the men who think like me will tell you something important ..jealous men get a lot less sex than those men who can make a woman feel comfortable and proud of the sexual person she is..
I hope this makes sense. Anyone who has read my other posts will know that I get a massive sexual thrill from learning about Beth's past lovers and boyfriends so I am clearly biased. However, if you read posts from other guys on this forum such as GRITS who is clearly an 'Alpha' male who gets a lot of sex with great women then you will see that jealousy is for the little guys...be the strong guy who can make your wife or gf love her past and you'll be the one who gets the benefit!
I'll look forward to seeing other people's opinions!
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