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Originally Posted by Vortexvortex
I've dealt with this in the past. My wife was with many men but I ended up asking details of every single encounter and it drove me wild. I was very young. If I were to enter a new relationship I'm not sure I would want all the details. But I think there's something about knowing another guy did something with your girl that you haven't that triggers jealousy. I don't have to worry about that though as we've done everything together. It also makes me a bit jealous to think she may look fondly on those other times with other guys. Obviously I think of my pst experiences and get excited about them, so why wouldn't she?
It's an irrational and immature yet unavoidable thought. I think most men want the women they've been with to think they're the best. It's an alpha male thing.
The best advice I could give is to listen to her. When she says you're the one for her, that she enjoys sex with you, etc. let that be enough.
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A very mature attitude to have about all of it.