I tend to go through phases when I use cams a lot. About 10 years ago I was in a long distance relationship which was pretty intense when we were together, and apart it evolved into us starting out having erotic text chats, then moved into using cams - which worked extraordinarily well - we'd undress and masturbate together very effectively, and got to the point where even if we weren't online at the same time we'd video ourselves and share. As an introduction to being naked in front of a cam if worked very well.
Subsequent to that I've used commercial chat rooms - and quite enjoy the paid for private rooms where you can pace things with the girls, and because there's the transactional aspect to it there's a level where you can be very self indulgent, getting to the point where you can get them to masturbate in a way that's just right for you and at exactly the right moment to get you off. Obviously it has all the connotations of sex work and exploitation, so there's a level of guilt which does trouble a bit, but I suppose it's all somewhat relative.
Also use FabSwingers - although it's not quite as good a site as it was. A couple of years back late in the evening you could often find a series of very rewarding chats and find women who'd cam with you very enthusiastically - I'd love to find somewhere that's now as consistently good as that was.
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