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Originally Posted by Couplein2MFM

He is the only one allowed to play alone whenever the opportunity presents itself and without asking. They have taken some business trips mixed with vacation time together where I could not attend, visited nude beaches together, swinger resorts and the like.

... I am soooo envious of your arrangement with your wife and friend. I have encouraged my wife to have sexual enjoyment with other men when I am not around and then tell me about it afterwards. Very exciting to me to hear her describe all of what they did and how good the sexual freedom to have sex with other men makes her feel.
The only problem is she can't quite get over the hump of feeling like she is "cheating" on me if I am not there. She recently had one perfect opportunity with a perfect guy she met on a business trip out of town but at the very last minute she backed down. UGH!

Anyone have suggestions of how to gently help her past that inhibition?? I have run out of ideas of what I can tell her to reassure her. Ladies, am I missing something that women know or feel that I am not aware of??

Mrs. Grits here******----Try not to appear like your throwing her at friends or aquaintances for sex..... that will make her feel worthless to you.... shes hesitating because she loves you, and is maybe uncomfortable about how much,, or just how you offer or want her to fuck others... think...
Do you have sex w/ other women??... if not maybe you should, or better, find a swing regular couple (not a swing club pick up couple) where as she sees you w/ another woman so it all on an even keel together?... be careful of making her feel that you don't care if she fucks others... you're supposed to care about each other in these situtations , and its should feel like extra carricular sex out side your bedroom... >>>..not entertainment for you.
Also, allowing her to say, that her friend & her are married on trips is not good.... always keep it what it is,, they are on a business trip togerther sounds better... your her husband, not him-- don't make her feel like shes living a lie.......from a woman... attitude, attitude, attitude counts.