Wife/GF's progression (from prude to nude)
Just wondering how many guys here have wives who changed/opened up over the years. Like starting out prude and eventually becoming flasher/streakers/exhibitionists? How did it happen? And how many guys are actively working on it?
My fiancée was always a bit of an exhibitionist "masquerading" as a prude. I'm still trying to get her to just openly accept her exhibitionism. It's been a tough road but I'm not giving up.
I've told the story about my ex before. She started out prude. When we first met I had a hard time even getting her to be completely naked in front of me.
Then I started exploring nudism. She was totally against it at first. But I managed to get her to at least accompany me to resorts. She occasionally got a little bit naked after a while, here and there, very discreetly. Even when she was nude she was still a prude, sitting in the back of the pool area, legs crossed - chest covered. But she started getting more comfortable being naked in front of me; and eventually other people.
Then one day she completely "switched up" on me. We decided to go to a resort; she decided to shave completely: first surprise. When we got there she decided to get naked right away instead of waiting until she got to the pool area: second surprise. When we got to the pool area she decided to pick a chair down right in front of the pool instead of the back: third surprise. When she applied sunscreen she decided to do it openly, standing up, bending over and really getting between her legs and all over her tits, making it a show: fourth surprise. When she finally laid down she did it with her legs wide open, right in front of the pool, where everyone could see: fifth surprise!
At the time I didn't know what the heck was going on so I just went with it. From there, her journey into exhibitionism just evolved: riding in the car naked, walking naked on our street, hanging around with her legs open in front of our nudist friends and strangers; hugging, rubbing her big tits against people and even getting one of our best friends hard by sitting butt naked on his dick. I didn't complain one bit.
She never really went into why that transition had happened. But I had a clue. Along the way my wife had made a good female friend. She was one of those "ultra-confident" nudists. The type that doesn't care about people staring at her and doesn't have an ounce of shyness, always gets naked even if no one else is - among both men and women, and enjoys being the center of attention. Her attitude rubbed off on my wife, progressively. I had seen the transition happen: the first time they met my wife was wearing a sarong, and while they were talking she opened up her sarong and let her tits out - that was a huge step for her. The second time we met up my wife got naked the moment she saw her. Then we went to the friend's place; as she was sitting around with her legs open, we got in a discussion about being comfortable completely naked, and my wife immediately opened her legs - I guess to prove she was comfortable too. My wife had been socially nude before; but never in an "intimate" situation where other people could see her open pussy. The friend's boyfriend got a good look at her vag; which I think opened the door for my wife's exhibitionism - she liked being looked at that way (that's the same guy who eventually would get to grope my naked wife). The sex when we got back home was amazing. By the time we took that one trip where she "cut loose", I think she had realized that she actually enjoyed the attention of people looking at her butt naked.
My wife had found her exhibitionist trigger. That's why I believe that a lot of "prude" women would "cut loose", given the right situation, or the right people being around. I was at a clothing-optional get-together once where a "prude" woman showed up. She was just there for her husband and wasn't going to get naked. Yet, by the end of the day, she had decided to undress and hang out naked with my wife. Right place, right people!
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