[Handiwerker]

Yes, I can totally agree with you that such revelations can be so horny, the trouble is the wife/gf is usually reticent to admit any details. This is especially true if a 3sum has ever happened ( or sexual activity which may lead others to be harsh moral judges) ; not even close friends know unless part of her inner circle
I have had 2 past gf relationships where she disclosed some secrets she discovered from other female friends after a girlie gossip night with plenty of wine. This only made me wonder what my (then) gf had said to the others about her past and how could I find out if they had said anything to their bfs?
One mate did go out with a girl who had worked previously as a holiday rep and I always hoped that I would encounter someone who has personal knowledge of her as I'm sure being an attractive rep the stories we hear about them are mostly true! My mate said she often just changed the subject or brushed things off if he dared to enquire. I still keep checking in chats just to see if any historical fact or photo comes up LOL..But and here its strange, that otherwise boasting boys may go quiet if they think its the current husband/bf trying to get info.

A way to maybe start wondering and imagining (as that can also be as good as knowing the facts sometimes) is to ask how often the wife/gf has had girls holidays away, especially abroad....and ask how the others behaved perhaps?

Anyway, thanks for the idea and making me think back over past gfs (possible/probable) experiences