Trust her - even when we lived in different countries
My wife is pretty, and hence attracts some amount of male attention - while she may on occasion flirt a little, I fully trust that she won't do anything either of us would regret. Flirting a bit happens, and I think that's normal.
We've also lived apart for close to a year in the past (we were already married then). She was in Tokyo, and was living alone. She did go to various expatriate meet ups/events etc, at some of which she did get hit on - since she was alone the guys in question thought she was single. She'd tell me about these incidents, and we'd laugh about them. She's mentioned if she flirted a little with someone as well - some of the guys she told me she'd flirted with a bit were also foreigners at the firm she was working at, and had become friends of hers. I never felt any reason to doubt anything, even though she'd hang out with some of them a fair bit, and go out drinking, etc.
I've detailed this on another thread (the one about a boss trying to take advantage of the wife) - the firm she worked at had a senior partner who was quite brazen in his behavior - he'd pat/feel up asses etc. I didn't ever feel worried or threatened that she'd give in to the guy, even though he did feel her up and hit on her. He even commented on the style of panties she wore (I guess touching her ass a few times have him an idea of what she wore), and when it was time to come back home, he gave her an additional going away gift - a hamper from a very expensive lingerie boutique (had some bras and thong panties and a teddy) - he asked her to send him photos of her posing in the lingerie - quite a brazen come on again! I was very surprised that he got her bras and panties in her correct size though - quite skillful that he managed to size her up by just looking at her
|