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Playing with fire.

I don't think you are being unreasonable. Its not being jealous or possessive. Its being realistic about human nature especially when drunk.

. Girls night out..drinking with male friends..etc. danger lurks...I have heard stories. If something does happen all she will say is " it just happened"..bla bla bla..IF you find out.

By that time its too late. If you forgive her..she won't respect you..she will use it as licence to do it again..

If she doesn't want to stop..red flag..maybe someone there she likes.

If you into swinging or sharing (which I think is garbage- a cop out) fine..

If not and you value what you work hard to get..set boundaries loud and clear or dump her.

Hard to do...but worth it long run.

Tom Leykis talks a lot about it..YouTube him.