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Originally Posted by dawggonetired
First question would you hit almost anything at the end of a night of drinking? Would it matter if she was married or had a significant other? Does her being a co worker enter in the decision?
The second issue and question is she thinks if a girls significant other is a convict, cop, or biker guys shy away from them. If your going to hit some chick during a one night stand and you find out she's going out with a biker, a cop, or a convict would this top you? would you even think twice about it?
Looking for honest feedback and any all thoughts
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Seems to me like you've got some trust issues. I think you need to resolve them before they brew and stew and you lash out at her one day and it gets ugly.
I implicitly trust my fiancée. She goes out with no underwear a lot, flirts and invariably gets hit on; often by younger guys who want to hit it. Sometimes I've been close by when it's happened. Some idiots just don't care; especially when they're heavily intoxicated.
My fiancée also has a history of bringing random guys home when she was younger. I wrestled with that myself; but we talked it out and I've come to accept her past. Just because she used to do it doesn't mean she'd do it again now.
No; I wouldn't pick up some random chick after drinking. But that's just me. When I was younger I would and did.
Yes; even if I did hit it off with some chick, I'd be very concerned about her relationship status. I've been burned before by banging a chick who was in a relationship.
But I think that's besides the point. Talk to her, address your concerns in a calm and rational manner. If she wants to experiment, set boundaries. If she likes to flirt: accept it or move on. A lot of guys here talk about sharing their wives; or have done it. Even though I don't mind when my fiancée flirts or flashes (I've even encouraged her); we've agreed that's as far as it goes.