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Originally Posted by nudony
My fiancée is somewhere in the middle. She "exhibits" sometimes; but it has to come from her. If I push her in any way to show more; she pushes back. I think she wants to feel like she is in control.
..... When we went to St Martin last year, she decided she wanted to go for a walk on the beach wearing just a cover-up; which was so short you could see her ass and puss from underneath if you looked hard enough. Once we got far enough she lifted it up to go wading. I told her that some people could probably see her naked ass; she told me to loosen up and not be so uptight about people seeing her bottomless.
...... When we went back this year and I "pushed" her to be less covered up, she turned me down flat.
Yeah it can be annoying as heck sometimes.
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Yes. I know how you feel. I am in the same situation with my wife. I hate to say it, but SHE is in control, and shows herself when and where she wants. Any prodding from me shuts the situation down. I've talked about this many times here before.... The best I can do is to create situations and/or visit places where she's likely to get naked.
..... A few for instances..........
St. Martin? A while back we visited there a lot. We preferred the nude beaches around Cupecoy and other less known nude beaches in St. Martin. But stay a Club Orient? out of the question, that is for nudists.!! We even stayed at Esmeralda bungalows on Orient Beach. At the time they allowed limited nudity there. Yes, she was nude on beach there and at our mini-pool. But that wasn't a nude resort, just a resort that allowed nudity. So it was OK with her I guess.
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We've got a very popular nude beach near us which we visit from time to time. But she'd much rather visit a sparsely populated beach also nearby, and give the occasional fisherman, beachcomber or boater any eyeful.
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As we speak, my wife is on our patio, naked, talking to her GF on the phone. A neighbor or two can see her partially from an upstairs window, just some tall sparse bushes blocking the view. And the infamous gate to our backyard. I can guarantee she didn't bother to lock the latch. She's just asking to get caught naked, like has happened many times.
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Thinking about her naked on the patio...... Last summer I was working on my car in the driveway with the garage door wide open. I see the wife in the garage, totally naked getting a beer out of the mini-fridge! The side door in the garage opens to the patio and she just stepped in to grab the cold beer. Pretty bold, I'm thinking, the garage door is wide open, and the sidewalk and street is just like 40 feet away, anyone walking by could see her! She then walks towards me like she's going to step out onto the driveway to see what I'm doing! Naked! I know she was only teasing me, knowing that it makes me nervous that she seems to like showing herself to the neighborhood. So there she is at the open garage door and I chase her back. She's smiling ear to ear, and ever so slowly turns and slowly walks away, invitingly wiggling her cute ass as she goes. Geez!
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But she gets very defensive and upset if I mention the words nudist or exhibitionist.
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