Does Han know about Bob, Kenneth and my brother. According to my wife Han has seen us in certain stages of undress. He has a view of the pool from the window but not the remainder of the yard towards the house. They have talked about their lives and Han was very interested in her giving her progression of role as an insecure wife to her currently working on being confident in her actions. She told him about Bob and Kenneth in this conversation. He does not know about my brother and his wife. She has also told him about Bob and Kenneth wives.
They seemed to have discussed most of our activities to date in conversation. She told him that once school is out that others will be over around the pool but they like the fact that our house is private with only one neighbor that is rarely seen. He said that he would maintain that privacy. My wife did tell him he was ok to watch but keep it discrete. He was happy with that.
As for rules and boundaries. We have yet to set them I guess. She enjoys the teasing very much and loves the effect it has on me and others if there is a reaction. I know that first and foremost she does not want to do anything that she thinks will upset me. I assume that is a boundary. She also wants to feel safe. Another boundary. I just always tell her if she is enjoying herself then I am happy. Drinking is where I tend to be cautious. The more she wants to do, the more she will drink. I understand that it's nerves or an excuse at times for her or the others. I have asked about this after several occurrences and she gives me no rule boundary.
We rarely plan out a day or event. It just happens. Countless times she will be in some state of undress or in the mood to tease and nothing happens. Other times she is not in any mood of teasing and opportunites i see that would be perfect are missed. I actually leave everything to her. I will suggest some times but now it's totally her call. Communication before during and after is always fun and entertaining. It brings to mind an event I didn't post, I will post it because it relates to this paragraph.
So all that said I will have to ponder the pre communication of my possible future manipulation.
Again I may post of a short not too sexy event that frustrated my wife from last summer that writing this remind me.
|