[HedoRocks]

Greetings from a fellow New England couple!

Yeah, that's a tough one. You don't really want a close friend in on it, just in case things go south. You don't to lose a friend or possibly worse. At the same time, I'm not too keen on random people on CraigsList, etc...

My wife and I are toying with having a threesome (MFM at first), and surprisingly it's not that she's not into it, it's the issue of finding that right person. We have a distant friend that we used to online game with many years ago. We've met a couple of times in real life, and he and my wife flirt online all the time. He lives on the west coast, so it may be the perfect match. He's close enough of a friend to know him well, but not close enough where we'd see him every day. My wife sends him topless/nudes once in a while, I think mostly because she knows it turns me on, but she likes the attention as well. He's coming to the east coast this summer, so we'll see!

Good luck finding that right person, and keep us up to date! Oh, and welcome to OCC!