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Originally Posted by markcobraib
can anyone give me any pointers on how to introduce my wife into group sex and swinging, she gets very wet when we pretend that my cock is someone else, but will not entertain it if I say we really should get others involved
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Mark, thank you for your post and the message.
As far as easing her into it, first make sure she is comfortable and open to something of this nature happening. Many woman are but they fear judgement or rejection from their husband or partner if they follow through. Communication is the most vital part of successful participation in the lifestyle.
For many couples we know the most successful way to ease into this is by being with somebody you both know well and who she has a physical attraction toward. Not that it has ever been played on but physical attraction is vital. We look at it like this: If we wouldn't turn and say wow if we saw somebody in the store, why would we want to get naked and have sex with them.
If the attraction is there, flirting and a no-pressure, no-expectation social setting is good. We personally love hot tubs. A few drinks to loosen inhibitions but not enough to be drunk. Typically things will progress naturally but she may rely opon you to start things off for her. With my wife it took me to physically undress her as she sat and the other guy watched in admiration. Move slowly and make sure she is on-board.
MFM is a great way to begin, group sex is something that is totally different and can be a lot of fun for both partners but it is not for everyone. We have done the group thing on multiple occasions but it is not really what either of us are into. For her, she really prefers a guy and me alone, MFM.
Good luck and hopefully some others will jump in with their ideas or experiences of what worked for them.