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Originally Posted by Couplein2MFM
If you are going to "vanilla bars" the dress is a little more difficult than going to a lifestyle club or bar.
At Lifestyle places my wife will typically dress in theme for the night. Lingerie, thongs, thigh highs, boots, and just plain naked depending on the crowd. It makes it a lot easier wardrobe wise.
At "vanilla bars" she will typically wear a short dress or skirt with a low cut top. She can match the skirts or even a dress with a pair of fishnet thigh highs and heels or black boots most times. She also normally wears a thong so if she if flirting and trying to get a guys attention she can position herself just right and "accidentally" expose herself.
For us, the "use me" look you are seeking is as much in the attitude as it is in the wardrobe.
For examples here are a few images. We were going out to a bar to meet somebody for a one-night stand pickup for her. The bar we went to is pretty busy with a full alcohol bar, food and a large billiard area that has 30 tables along with games. It is largely crowded with college age single guys which is what she likes. The dress was short enough that without any panties she could easily bend over and show anything she wanted. Needless to say, we did not have to buy any drinks and after an hour she had the pick of who she wanted to bring back home.
Good luck in your venture!
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Thank you so much for your reply. Yeah most of the places we go are just regular old places. No theme or anything. Just a bar and music and pool tables. Sometimes card tables and a dance floor.
I totally understand what you are saying about the attitude part of it. She definitely tries to convey that in her body language and her actions.
We have a dress similar to the photos you postes except it is a little longer and long sleeved. My wife is 5'1 and 240 lbs (BBW) and she gets self conscious of her appearance sometimes. You dont think wearing a dress like whats in your photos is to trashy for a BBW do you?
And do you think the painted toenails with high heel sandals and acrylic white tipped nails seems to fancy? Or would you keep doing it?
I want her to look sexy with the use me look but at the same time not so trashy no guy wants to go near her.
Thanks again!