[snoopy12]

My wife shocked me (and gave a raging hardon) this morning, when she said she had erotic dream. She was in military service and she was the only woman there. When I asked for details couple times, she said "It was brutal, forced, not just sex." ... it ended there as the morning routine kicked in, but it sure got my head spinning with images.
Now my wife is very conservative with strict catholic upbringing, whenever anything other than straight sex (swinging or bondage,but even blowjob) is mentioned, even jokingly, she shuts it down. So her confession was a big shock. I would love her to open her mind at least as a fantasy goes, for mutual pleasure. I'm more than certain, it is in her, blocked by social conditioning.
Anyone had some experience how to encourage a woman not to feel bad about erotic fantasies?