I can come from the wife's perspective. I never in a month of Sundays would have thought I would be ok with sharing, and yet this weekend my husband and I shared our first foursome and it was amazing. I was a virgin until 21, have only slept with 9 guys including my husband and have been faithful to him for 23 years so I was probably one of the most strait-laced people you could meet.
But I was the one who brought up the idea to my husband, and slowly over the weeks we have been exploring it. Have you even brought it up to her? She might surprise you.
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