[GRITS]

Originally Posted by Welee337

Grits, to answer your question, referenced #187, my first wife and I had a couple that we shared with. We believe in secrecy and to have a couple that wouldnt spill our business was huge. We would swap up usually once a week and sometimes during the weekend. It was a nice routine. It was hard to try vett other couples or other married partners. We always found only one side would do it and the other wouldnt. So to save our secret we just kept it with our regular couple.

Current wife doesnt care to share at the moment. She likes to hear about it and watch, but wont join in swapping. So i get to visit my married couple when we visit friends and family in certain areas. So i still get to play some every now and then. Wish I could find another couple closer to the town we live in that the wife would be interested enough to be part on the fun, or atleast so i could get some fun from time to time. And of course some friends that could keep it quiet, we like to keep our names clear of any gossip...

You guys got a lucky group. To have several select friends, you guys hit the jackpot.

Mrs Gritz, could you tell the difference if you were tied up and blindfolded and your hub let someone else do you without you knowing? Just curious to my previous comment to another user.

Yes, I couild tell if its not hubby.... but in a more multi situtation I can't tell who is who, except hubby....

Remember, having and finding "select" friends is a job in itself... nothing easy about it,, but if you can stay the course it pays off....patience counts.