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Originally Posted by roaringz
Hello
I want to persuade my girlfriend to go topless on a public beach this summer, she is kinda shy but has shown some kind of exhibitionism during our relationship, but she is not self confident at all (she thinks she is ugly as hell) to try going topless despite her being very slim with perky tits
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My GF was in the same boat.
We went to St Martin where toplessness is practiced on Orient Beach; but she wasn't digging it at all. There just weren't enough topless women around; and she didn't feel comfortable being one of the few women topless. Not the right venue for her to go topless.
On our second day we went to an isolated beach; there weren't too many people there so she got comfortable and dropped her top for a little bit to go swim. But some people came around and she put her top right back on. Not the right venue for her to stay topless either.
On our third day I managed to convince her to go to the nude beach. She was initially against being around naked people but she agreed to accompany me anyway. We got there and all the women were either nude or topless. She contemplated her surroundings for a bit, and after meeting some friendly nudists, decided to make the jump: she took off her top. She was actually one of the least naked women around; so that made her comfortable going topless. She had never been openly topless before so that was a new experience for her, and in spite of her shyness she ended up enjoying it. Eventually she went all the way and got naked; but most of her day at Club O was spent topless. That was the right venue for her to go topless.
I recommend trying to find an isolated part of the beach first to see if she can be topless "privately." As a second resort try finding a nude beach (if she's game) because it might be less daunting for her to be topless where other people are nude. Formentera has a nude beach.