[ExFiles]

I've heard it said that certain experiences lead to "having things" later on in life.

For example: When I was 15, my girlfriend went to spring break with her (18 or 19) year old sister at the time. Being a Florida native, I knew what that meant. Turns out her and her sister flashed for several cameras. I was pissed at the time and a little turned on. So I went on a hunt of Spring Break 2001 pics trying to find her. I never did, but I began to enjoy voyeurism.

Fast forward to my first marriage (different girl, this one was a virgin when I got a hold of her), I always had this desire to take her to the local nude beach, Playalinda. She was a prude though and the most I ever got out of her was a flash. I could talk her into more, but I never wanted to push it and I was also kind of hesitant to have my wife naked in front of other men; it's not really the people, it's the pervs - everyone has a camera these days. It wasn't until I came home early one night and saw her fucking a friend through a window that I sort of expanded my horizons. On one hand, I debated violence... on the other hand, I was turned on. Needless to say, that marriage of 10 years didn't work out.

Maybe it's age, maybe it's experience. Maybe it's the desire to always "push into new exciting territories."

But on wife number two, who is far more sexually experienced and carefree. I've eased into exhibition with her.

When we started dating in 2014 (me 29, her 28), it started out just going to the beach with the occasional flash. It moved into her sliding her top down to her waist while we were in the water and just keeping her back to everyone. Then moved to me not really caring who saw us out far in the water. This is where it kind of surprised me, as I'm very territorial with my significant other.

A later day that same summer we showed up to HIGH tides and rough waves. We were in the non-nude section of Playalinda. The beach was mostly-abandoned. We waited for some photographers to leave and I suggested she take everything off and fully-experience the beach while no one was around. It was a pretty exciting last 10-20 minutes of our visit that day.

We go engaged before the next beach visit. She didn't want tanlines in her wedding dress, so we decided to go to parking lot 13 and walk a mile into the "backcountry" area, where we never saw another soul. She voluntarily spent the whole day topless.

Next trip, we both went nude. Well, she was wearing a sun hat. We saw another couple on approach and my territorial reflexes kicked in and I suggested we get dressed. As the other (naked and pushing 80) couple walked by, I kinda felt stupid - like I robbed us of an experience. The elderly couple was just there to enjoy the beach. Probably didn't have a clue how to work a camera phone even if they WERE interested. What was the big fuss?

Anyway, the honeymoon phase ended... we're both working full time jobs and just finished a stressful move. We had this conversation about our sex life. I suggested that we go back to the beach, just walk to where people can't see every little detail and spend the whole day nude regardless of who comes by. She laughed and said "I'm not the one who suggested we get dressed last time." To be frank, I honestly don't care if she strips in the populated area and we walk out that way at this point.

Then the conversation worked its way to us both agreeing it would be pretty hot to fuck in front of other people if we ever naturally found ourselves there... those opportunities aren't really as abundant as an adult as they were in high school or college where you didn't really have a place to fuck anyway. We even touched on the subject of bringing another couple in, but agree that we don't think we'll ever do it though.

It's funny how much one changes in a decade.