To answer the second part of the question 'Why' is probably more complex.
If it was just a case of my wife finding out she'd been exposed to thousands of strangers I reckon she'd get over it, - seriously. She's happy on a crowded nudist beach after all.
Friends and family, now that's a different matter but even then the embarrasment factor is not that huge, once it's done it's done.
Employment can be an issue for some.
The real problem is that most families have some people who see themselves as the moral guardians of others (religion often involved) and would act as though a few naked pics equates to murder.
Some people would suffer serious fallout from families and permanent damage to relationships.
The thing that cracks me up is that some folks are very quick to judge others but they are no better themselves.
I guess some people on the forum are lucky and don't have to answer to anyone, or just don't give a damn, so good luck to them!
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