On one hand, yeah, at least he asked, but on the other hand, if you didn't get your invitation up in the bar or the dance floor, you don't ask to 'cut in' in the play area. He should have been happy just to be allowed down there because most swinger's clubs I know of won't even allow single men to be in the play areas. And there are no signs available to designate 'watch only' at the club, everything we were told was that you can watch unless you are invited to join. Another place we went to had wristbands to designate interests, but even that seemed to be ignored by the single guys.
My wife knows what she is in for. This is a sex club. And, yeah, we should have gone to a more enclosed area, but she thought she was ready and it is a fantasy of her's to have an audience see what a little sl*t she can be. Maybe next time.
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