I think it's about control. They feel that under specific circumstances they can be in control; as far as who sees them, how much, etc...
My GF is the same way. I walk around nude our home all the time; she says she's not into that. Yet, I've caught her walking by the open window completely naked, knowing that from our place people on the street can just see her. When I tell her that she feigns ignorance.
When we were on vacation, she put up a big fuss about visiting the nude beach. Yet, when we went for a walk on the public beach one evening, she chose to just wear a cover-up with no undies. As we waded in the water, she suddenly pulled up her cover-up, revealing her bare ass. She continued walking bottomless even as other people walked by us. I was like "WTF!? She's fussing about going to the nude beach down the strip but I walking around with her ass and vage out?!"
I realized it's about control and being able to choose who sees her naked. At the nude beach everyone can see her nude; and she can't control who looks. But I'm working on it. I'm trying to impart to her that she doesn't need to control who sees her naked. She has agreed to try being really naked in front of everyone when we go back on vacation.
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