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Originally Posted by jimmy14
Sounds-Like there are still some very disagreeable feelings remaining on your part about this?
Wondering? What bothers you most? The drugs, the embarrassment of her telling the story- or the fact that they gave their pusses away so easily- for the drugs?
I do understand you being pissed about this.
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I don't understand your feelings. Whatever happened before the two of you were a couple shouldn't be held against her, should it? Were you a virgin before you met her? Were you the proverbial choir boy?
I used to be jealous of my wife's (extensive) past when I first learned about it but I got over it when I became secure in our relationship. Now I am no longer feel threatened by it and I think it's hot to think about. In fact, I enjoy her stories now and ask her to tell them to me over and over again.
I hope you get to this point too, because it feels alot better than anger and jealousy.