Quote:
Originally Posted by Manzarak
Can you be more exposed at a nudist club? I suppose it is physically possible (yoga, weight machines, spread lips), but I think you can be more exposed by actions.
|
Truth.
When my ex started out in nudism she was quite shy/reluctant. She'd go nude, every here and there, when there weren't too many people around at the resort. Even when she was nude by the pool she was very prudish in her demeanor, and the way she sat and lied. Full bush, crossed legs. When she was nude then you wouldn't see much of her at all. She didn't socialize.
Over time, she started changing. We made nudist friends, she started getting comfortable. One day, after a nice trip to the resort, she came home and shaved. Completely. I don't know what she saw that made an impression on her; she never said a word about it.
When we returned to the resort, her demeanor started changing. She started staying completely nude all over the resort. She was loosening up. We started sitting right by the pool instead of the back corner. I realized things were really changing; on a trip, after I went to the bathroom and reentered the pool area, I looked in her direction. And all I saw was ass. I approached and realized she had her back turned to the pool, and was straddling our lounge chair with one bent knee, bent over looking for something in her purse! I walked over and just whispered to her that she was showing her pussy from behind to the entire pool area! And her response was biting: she didn't give a shit!! She told me that being nude for her was about freedom; and she could care less who was looking at her pussy!
She started laying out legs opened...I think the entire resort has seen her open naked pussy! She started getting into resort activities; you could see her all over the resort, playing volleyball, basketball or water polo, big breasts bouncing all over the place. When she wasn't doing activities or walking around talking to people, you could see her lying right by the pool area, or standing around lotioning herself. Another anecdote: one time she was actually bent over lotioning her legs, right by the guy sitting next to us. Her ass was nearly on top of him; he could see her pussy and asshole right on top of him! He actually made a cute joke about it...and my wife just laughed! She was well aware of what this guy was seeing and she just didn't give a shit!
So yeah. Take my ex at the beginning of her journey: she was nude but not exposed. Down the line: she was completely exposed. She went from "nude prude" to "openly butt ass naked." Call it exhibitionism, call it naked attitude. I think she just reached a point where she just got comfortable with her body and didn't care about who was looking at her or where. Unlike so many other nudist women, she didn't treat her vagina like it was something special, like "chaos would ensue" if she showed it. To her, her vagina was nothing to be ashamed of.
I was actually proud of her when some people came to me and told me they admired my wife for being so open and uninhibited. Some actually wished their wives was more like her. Of course I would think: "Do you admire HER for being so uninhibited or are you just admiring her big boobs bouncing all over the place and her open pussy when she's lying around?" Of course, deep down I realize it was probably a bit of both.