I guess this is mildly off topic but I'll leave it here. First post for a long time lurker.
My wife is in her mid 30s. Blonde and pretty, starting crossfit 18 months ago has left her in much better shape than she was when we married 10 years ago. She has a professional, high profile career in the biblebelt as do I. To my knowledge she has never cheated on me and we engage in sex on a regular basis. We both enjoy it. Several of her friends who are of the same age have now begun an active and varied dating life. Over a bottle of wine one night and having heard very graphic talk from her best friend I told her, in jest, that she could have sex with whoever she wanted but that I wanted the chance to watch. We all laughed about it and it was a running joke for the better part of a year.
Fast forward to this summer, her job makes her go to annual conferences that they have at various places around the US. It's a chance for networking for sales and whatnot. Since the room is paid for as is her cost, I often attend with her to get a free vacation. This year it was in Denver. After dinner and at the bar the first night, several of the people we were hanging out with brought up the marijuana dispensary a few blocks down and that they had gotten baked goods from there. I did not partake, she did. I don't know if she had smoked pot before, it's not something we'd talked about. Within an hour she was high as a kite. She became very outgoing, dancing with people and generally lively. She also started to show her normal signs of getting turned on. Her chest will get flushed and her skin will literally get hot. I got her to sit down at a table with a fellow we talked with who lived a few states away she met earlier that afternoon. They talked business for a long time and I watched the baseball game while I nursed my drink.
He got up and walked to the bar and she leaned into me and asked if I loved her, to which I replied yes.
She asked if I had packed condoms and I told her that I had. I was one month post vasectomy and she isn't on the pill so that was a given.
At this point I thought hot dog, I'm gonna get lucky.
Then she dropped the bomb - "I'm going to take this guy back to our room and fuck his brains out. I'll let you watch." I still thought she was half way joking. He came back and took his seat beside her and she got closer to him in the booth laughing, giggling and whispering in his ear. I tried to ignore them and got more and more pissed as the minutes went by. By the time she stood up and said she was ready to go her mouth looked swollen, her nipples were obvious through her blouse and her chest was beet red. His erection was obvious and huge and I remembered her joking about having jungle fever with her girlfriends. Now it was clear.
Where this would normally go into all kinds of details, my story ends quickly. I told her she could do whatever. She looked confused and pissed at me and left with her new friend. I drank more, shut off my cell phone and stayed gone all night. I waited a sufficient time in the morning and went back to the room. She left me a note saying to turn on my cell and text her. In the garbage were 3 condom wrappers.
I met her at lunch, told her there was an emergency in my business and that I was booking a flight back that night. I left without discussing the events of that evening and we still haven't several months later.
Funny that people joke about these things but when given the chance to watch my sunday school teacher wife with a black man, I chickened out.
