I dont have too many notches on my bed post (I'm pretty sure there are 10), but I can honestly say that none of the women I've been with have ever refused to give a BJ. Some have been more enthusiastic than others, of course, and some better than others, but all did it without hesitation.
Luckily for me, my wife is the most talented head giver I have ever met and she loves it. She is also another of those women who can orgasm while working her magic. She says it turns her on to see how much it turns me on and loves watching me react to the different techniques she uses. From sucking on just the head while using her tongue to tease it (which drives me absolutely crazy) to completely deep throating my whole cock (and I am close to 8 inches and quite thick) she is amazing!
On the other hand, she does not like receiving oral sex, which disappoints me because I love giving. While all the the other women I have dated have all loved it, my wife rarely allows me to do it and I have never gotten her to orgasm orally. Just a mental block due to her upbringing.
