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Originally Posted by GRITS
I did mis- read your post.....>> But for starting out couples, especially if your trying to get your wife to go along, having sex at a club as a newbie in the lifestyle can ruin everything...going slow and easy works better in the long run...
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In my opinion, the absolute worse thing you could do is try to introduce your wife into this lifestyle meeting up with a single couple you know absolutely nothing about. For all you know, the male could be an overly aggressive a-hole that pushes himself onto your wife while his wife is draining every wine bottle she can find. Or worse yet, he simply cannot perform.
But regardless of the situation, if someone is trying to introduce their better half into a lifestyle they aren't comfortable with, that my friend is when the real fireworks begin. Have seen more than a couple of spouses/girlfriends storm out of the club because they simply where not prepared for any intimate sharing. Communication is paramount and the most successful tool you possess.
If there is open communication amongst all, expectations (or anticipations) are shared, everyone knows what they are walking into, it can be an amazing experience. Dishonesty and lack of trust will blow everything up in a hurry.
The world is what you make it. Untold fortune at your fingertips, as you travel the world of sexual experiences that will remain with you and yours for the rest of you life.