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Originally Posted by GRITS
Don't do any swinging at any swing clubs!!... it will ruin the attitude your trying to accomplish.... go, but just look and play w/ each other only!!
Actually sex w/ others at a club is for well established long time swingers...think...they are all strangers!! and if you have a bad experience w/ strangers in public,,, you might no ever try swinging again....
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I whole-heartedly disagree with Grits assessment. We thoroughly enjoyed every experience we had at a local swing club in our area. Sure, you are going to run across someone that doesn't fit your taste or attitude but that happens in every aspect of your life. As a couple, you select those you feel comfortable with and explore from there.
The only way you are going to find partners with, is to actually meet them in an environment that fits what you are looking for. Other than taking your chances cruising on the internet, what better place than a swingers club to meet swingers?
Call ahead to schedule an orientation (or whatever your local club calls it), see what the club is like. Find out what the average couple is like, and what to expect for a range in ages of the members. Mingle with the folks that are there, as they are all there for a good time. Unless you or your spouse is dead set against the other having sex with someone new, you will absolutely enjoy yourself.