Been there and done that
One of the most memorial time of popping too soon was when I was dating my wife at the time. She invited me to stay over with her at her apartment. After cooking me dinner we were petting in the living room before moving to her bedroom for more.
Our clothes were loosened somewhat and hands were everywhere. She excused herself to go into the bathroom to 'get ready'. I stripped off to my underwear and was waiting for her in her bed. Her fragrance and scent were all over the bed. When she came back out, she was completely naked. The bathroom light was still on when she posed at the doorway to give me a good look.
I was already at the edge with all of the heavy petting. So when she did that I popped right there and then. Lucily I still had my underwear on so I didn't make a mess in the bed before we started. I hop out of the bed to the bathroom to 'get ready' too, and cleaned up the mess without her knowing.
Actually popping early was a blessing because that took the edge off for me. I came back out and took care of her at a leisurely pace. We had a great time the first time in her bed. Only years later after we were married I told her what happened in her bed that first time. So coming too early may have some benefits too.
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