An update of sorts.
My wife and I have been talking about the potential of her with her friend's husband pretty much every night, and I know she thinks of him during sex because she has been into sex even more than normal, which is great. I asked if she had done anything with him already behind my back and she said no, and I believe her, of course.
On Tuesdays, my wife goes walking around a lake with her friend in the afternoon, and then showers at her friend's house and they have lunch. It's been this way for years.
Yesterday, being Tuesday, they went walking again, and I had the day off from work just because I had some time I had to use, so my wife said I should meet them at her friend's house after they go walking. I asked if she had other plans in mind, and after she glared at me, she said, "No, do you?"
So I get to the house and they give me a tour (they moved in a year ago and I have only been in their driveway since they normally come to our house to visit). And we get to the master bedroom, and the bathroom entrance is a large opening with no door, heated floors, and one of those walk in shower things made out of stone, no door or curtain, but slanted so the water drains the right way. I commented how I had never known anyone with such a modern bathroom, and her friend said that is the only reason they bought the house. There was a large whirlpool in there, and the toilet had its own door and around the corner.
I jokingly asked my wife is that is where she showers and why she comes back every Tuesday, and she said, "yep." And she was serious. I said, "there is no door to the shower and you can see all the way in from the hallway if the bedroom is open," and she said, "yep, I know." I said, "do you keep the bedroom door open when you shower here?" She said, "yep." She was saying "yep" casually and wasn't making eye contact, so I asked more.
I asked, "has anyone seen you shower here?" She said, "yep." Before i asked the next question, she looked at me and said, "yep!" I said, "he has?!" She said, "well he is home most the time, so ya." I asked if she gets dressed with the bedroom door open too and she said, "well, ya, I mean the first time I freaked out when he walked by, but I figured oh well, and now I don't care. It's not every time. Just some of the times."
I asked her when this all started, and she said after she played with her former colleague and finally told her friend, it started the very next Tuesday. She said telling her about friend being shared was a bonding moment for her and her friend, and the friend told the husband, Friend invited my wife to take a shower there instead of downstiars, and Friend left the bedroom door open on purpose, Husband saw my wife, it broke the ice, and now he sees her quite often, but not every time. And it led to the three of them talking about Husband being with my wife if I would be okay with it because of my wife telling them her story to start all this.
Anyway, I was pretty quiet during lunch, and I eventually asked if they was ever any touching or anything, and they all said no, just prolonged talking while my wife dresses sometimes, and I believed them. I asked if they wanted to touch each other, and they said, "honestly we are just waiting for you to say so, but we would never do more than just the talking and looking we are doing now." I said I probably wouldn't mind if I could do something with the Friend, even if it was just looking and not touching, and she said, "I know it sounds unfair, but no, not even seeing me naked." So, I said I would have to think about it.
I asked my wife where the Friend showers, and she said Friend showers after my wife does, and sometimes the Husband joins his own wife if his timing is right. I asked my wife if she sees him naked, too, then and she said, "only twice." I asked if they have all been naked at the same time, and my wife said she has been dressed by then each time.
They asked if I was still okay with my wife walking on Tuesdays and showering, and I said I don't really care, as they already have been doing it for a few months without me knowing. The Friend could tell I was upset, and said that she really liked me and thought I was pretty awesome, but still didn't want me to see her naked in return.
I said at this point, just a boob flash and I might let Husband play with my wife. And she said "maybe next time."
I keep going back and forth between feeling really excited about the whole thing and really bothered by it. I know my wife would never do anything unless I was totally on board, but I also never thought she would be seen naked by her friend and husband. Then again, she has let her guard down before in other situations, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised in the back of my mind.
It's just crazy that a year or so ago, these conversations never happened, and this summer my wife let a guy enter her very briefly, and she is naked around her friends!
And even part of me wishes they had messed around or at least showered together but aren't really to admit it to me yet! I will have to wait until my wife is in her goofy, over-tired mood where she talks but isn't totally aware of what she is saying. Then maybe she will tell me!
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