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Originally Posted by wtrski
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Great post, I love the direction of your line of questioning, and I am eager to hear the responses of this group.
I'm always looking for the same thing.
We have been to resorts like this. Hedo, and Desire, as well as Paradise Lakes in FL years ago.
There are always relationship dynamics and pitfalls to avoid when deciding how to "introduce" a partner to a situation that is conducive to getting them to play with others. While a lot of relationship experts warn against any type of shenanigans "tricking" a partner into an area they are uncomfortable with, I can tell you that I have heard plenty of anecdotes from people who used a trip to Desire or Hedo or a swing club to successfully start something with a partner.
So as someone who has been to these places (several times), I can also tell you that I am constantly looking for more places that have a sexy vibe. My wife has enjoyed herself at Hedo and Desire, but I would not say these places are her "natural environment". We may in fact return to these places, but I am always looking for places that are a little more "vanilla" in their sexual pedigree. While not everyone at Hedo or Desire is a swinger, those resorts do have a little more of a reputation as "naughty places".
She does (like many women) have some body image issues (I'm not sure why, because she's much hotter than the majority of guests at these places but that's another post), and I'm sure that colors some of the anxiety about booking one of these resorts.
I would love to hear about people's trips to Temptation. Also anywhere else that where nudity or toplessness is present. Some place you have been where there is any exhibitionism/voyeurism? Was there a sexy vibe there?
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Been to temptations twice with the mrs. Best way to describe it is "spring break for adults" where topless is the norm. While there are swingers at the resort, hey are not in the majority. Great place to visit for a fun time, just go soon as they are closing for a year i believe in august for renovations