Wow, fast response, thanks guys. So what goes on at these resorts? how does one signal receptivity, non-receptivity, how to dress, do guys/couples come on, is it subtle or out front? I'm thinking if it happens at all, the resort would have to look like a "normal" resort, and then it would slowly dawn on my wife (and to my great "surprise") that the people are pretty "liberal". If she were drinking a little, she might dance, and let some of the guys grope her...beyond that, I don't know. for me, it would be quite a turn on just to see the men look down her dress, look up her dress, and grope her a little....