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Old 06-03-2016, 04:27 AM
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It's been a progressive thing over the years. In our early married years she wasn't sure about going topless on the beach until we went abroad and then she relaxed a bit. I think it largely revolved around the unreasonable fear that we would bump into someone we know.
She eventually allowed me to take some nude photos back in the days of film because I used to post them off hundreds of mile away to get developed. Slowly over the years she was more relaxed especially when digital came in.
We then got into taking some flashing photos outside but only whe there are no other people.
She'll go out wearning subtle see through tops and no bra.

About 10 years ago I got her to go nude on the beach and that is normal now. She's quite happy mingling with hundreds of naked strangers but wouldn't even be topless around female family.

We went to a nudist camping resort for a short break. Again she wasn't sure at first but said she really enjoyed it.
It was relaxing not having to worry what to wear for a few days although it did seem weird at first queuing up with her naked at the little supermarket checkout.

In the last 3 or 4 years she's Ok with some masturbating each other on a quiet beach or giving me a blowjob. She doesn't want anyone watching but seems happy enough if we are 100 yards or so away from others.

In the last year we we at the beach with her sister and they saw some nudists nearby and asked her would we go naked at that beach, and she actually admitted that we do. Now that one surprised me.

The thing she won't agree to is posting photos, and again this is worry about recognition. She knows her brother is into porn sites a bit. All things considered I can't complain and it's best to take things slowly as I don't want to scare her off. Years ago I would never have figured we would have come this far and there's alwys a bit of progress.
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