hate to say it but you'll probably never get her out of your system especially with the good things that have gone between you especially the kids. I divorced almost 30 years ago and there are still times when I think back to the good things or wonder what has happened to her.
I do have to remember the tough times to balance that out!
Having said that my wife of 27 years is way better in everyway and my life as a whole has become much more positive in many, many ways.
Time, as the cliché says, is a great healer but you always have some scar tissue - it's up to you how you grow from it.
Good luck and I'm really sorry that the highs turned so low so quickly.
Rob
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