[jacksonhole]

Jane, you are fast becoming my favorite writer on this site. When I read your first story I thought it was incredibly hot, and figured that you were on your way to cheating on your husband full time.

But as you have continued to write about your internal struggles between reliving some of your youthful adventures and trying to get your husband involved, it seems like you are really a good person, who values your marriage and loves your husband. Your writing is playful, but you can sense the internal debate you are having.

The most intriguing thing to me (and I suspect many of the men on OCC) is that it is usually the husband who is conspiring to try to get his wife to be more adventuresome, but for you it is the opposite.

Not knowing the people involved, but being a man, my suspicion is that he will be much more open to your games than you are giving him credit for. And given what you have already done (topless waitress was genius) it seems clear that he is enjoying it as well.

The one thing I would be very careful about is having actual sexual contact with Jeff in front of your husband, especially anything below the waist. As you have pointed out, guys love looking at tits, and I doubt he will object to that. But for many guys, even ones who like the idea of their wife getting naked in public, seeing another man giving their wife an orgasm can really mess with their minds.

I am eagerly awaiting your next installment.

Since you asked for suggestions, I would suggest just about any game that can have stripping or dares associated with it. I would steer clear of truth or dare for right now, unless the dares are agreed to in advance.

And most important, don't forget the power of saying "He's already seen me topless/naked" - I don't completely understand it, but that is a great go-to when the game starts to get to the stripping stage.

Have fun and keep us all posted!