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Originally Posted by thesparkyman
Yes he was a sadist and we both hate him. I'm sorry if people found the post not to their taste. As I say we are all kinky and I am not going to judge anyone but I've left out a lot of what Dee told me because it would really be offensive if I wrote it here. So you all know Dee approves and agrees what I write here, she said it helps to get some of it out in the open while remaining anonymous and not get judged.
She did say no to him, however at these special occasions this asshole had all the control, no one to stop him and if she did say no he'd often think of something worse. As I said he played headgames and more pressure on her.
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I've know quite a few gals who have gotten themselves into difficult situations where someone has leverage over them. I have noticed that even when they can get out of that situation they typically do not. One told me once that it allowed her to do things she wouldn't ever do with her husband and in her mind she could rationalize this by thinking she had no choice. But she did.