View Single Post
  #393  
Old 04-06-2016, 06:16 PM
daveduchovny daveduchovny is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 753
Thanks: 1,259
Thanked 14,739 Times in 600 Posts
Default

Testimonial number 2:

Quote:
Each person has their own comfort zone, there are cozy and comfortable. And beyond it they do not want to go. And why? It's scary, and maybe it will hurt. Thereafter the unknown, there our dreams and desires.

Going in a circle walking-family-housework. We suffer from complexes, we do not believe in ourselves, we are afraid of condemnation of others, even though they have no effect on our lives. If someone says that we are good or bad, that life does not change, and so do we.

I began not to make my life. Although I am a terrible coward, and for me to move from the place - it is too hard. I would sit at home, in 4 walls, no one to see, not hear, and do not touch me. But always the same. And I want to have fun, dating, some madness. But, while I have those same thoughts, that's scary. It is necessary to get up and do something.

Sitting on my backside leads to deep depression, which is nothing to be desired. Accidentally I stumbled on the closed group to "winter swimming". I've been watching these people before they were for me insane - to bathe naked in public, in the icy water. No, guys, it's too much. Yes, and I do not have enough courage and determination, as well as the same facilities?

Well, well, I thought, and learn from a man who is the pro. I decided to change life - I start with myself. Go to my fears.

I did it, I bathed in cold water, but I was told that I got off easy, the water temperature is only 12 degrees. Status indescribable, I was proud of myself, I did it, I conquered my fears and to impose on society the view that it is bad.

I was happy when peers energy at all, at first I could not understand why people look at me like business as usual, and I just published the "light" and a smile. Thanks to Dmitry Vladimirsky for insight into this world.
And the accompanying photo:
Attached Thumbnails
Flj44Yc1RVk.jpg  
Reply With Quote
The Following 16 Users Say Thank You to daveduchovny For This Useful Post: