Thanks DRDavenport. Wise advice. As our activities started out as mostly dares and exhibition and getting a thrill from the reactions, we have crossed into unfamiliar territory with more recent events.
Before my meeting with kenneth and Bob, I sat down with my wife to let her know of my plans and get her perspective on everything. She actually said the same thing as DRDavenports advice. She did not want sex or sexual activities to dominate or friendships. She also stated privacy is most important to her. That if there were to be any additional activities that it would stay between the group this included no pictures of her. She said she believes she can be comfortable in most situations but prefer that I be present if possible. I jokingly but seriously told her as she controls 100% of the pussy and tits in my house if she is not happy or comfortable i am not happy or comfortable.
Bobs wife has really given my wife perspective on our friendships and has the following understanding. Sex or sexual activities can deepen our friendships as long as we all approach everything honestly and speak our minds when we question anything. Honesty and trust like in marriage is the key to continuing our friendships. When my wife told me this I knew where to take the meeting with Kenneth and Bob.
Kenneths wife has been calling my wife also all week. As I think I stated earlier and if not she has never had sex with anyone other than kenneth. My wife told her till recent events that she was the same with me being her only partner. I'm sure no one is interested in the details but through the conversations with my wife,
she is enthusiastically wanting/waiting to have sex with me. Between kenneth and my wife building me up I am sure to not meet such lofty expectations.
I met kenneth and Bob yesterday at Kenneth's office. As usual, I was running late. They had been discussing our situation and the dynamics. To pass time these two took a poll of the wives. Scoring them on looks, personality and desirability. Kenneth even went as far as making a grid of 1 to 10 on his computer. They were bored. I have the two person poll. My wife, looks - 8.6, personality - 8.0, desirability - 10. I believe the poll is a slight bit inflated after sex but flattering. They had my wife at 8.87, bobs wife at 7.74 and Kenneth's wife at 6.89. As a followup I scored all 10's. I told them they are too superficial.
To the conversation. I started with my wife's comments about honesty and trust. They both agreed wholeheartedly. I know my friends. I called a phone check. Kenneth first. Pictures of bobs wife, he confirmed that he and his wife were aware. Picture of my wife from behind, naked walking into my house. Picture of my wife full frontal naked walking in my kitchen taken through window. Several pictures of her laying on the side of my bed legs off the side open. Deleted all. Asked kenneth if they were anywhere else. He said text. I almost lost my cool till I looked at text and all were sent to Bob. Deleted. Asked anywhere else. He said no. I checked email. Nothing. Bobs phone. Some pictures of Kenneth's wife naked from the other night. Kenneth said his wife didn't know but would tell her. Same pictures of my wife. Deleted. Bob said he had a flash drive that he would destroy.
I explained that my wife wants complete privacy. No pictures. I can only assume if she wants you to have a picture she will let you know. Until then, no pictures. I also said none and I mean none of our past, present or future experiences will be spoke to or in front of anyone outside our group. All agreed.
I also said nothing is to be taken for granted with the ladies. They are to all be treated as if nothing ever happens out of our previous relationships. They control all aspects of our future shared sexual activities. All agreed.
This was a summary. Much conversation.
Sorry for so much volume posting but its exciting to retell and I will try to limit to new adventures.
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