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We're back together, but she's not living with me yet. We've gone to court and got that sorted out - all is good.

We're going through the motions of repairs, rebuilding trust, etc. We're going to couples counseling and already doing very good in that area, the therapist is surprised how well we are doing who knows some of what we done (Open relationship) as it pertains to our problems.

We love each other very much. My libido is pretty much back to normal too.

We're both still hurt and working things out and excited about our future.

The friend, John has been helpful in getting us back together - but also other support from friends and such.

When we started talking, we learned we got our lines of communications crossed. She did things she thought she had TO do, because she loved me. I did things because I thought she wanted me to do, etc, etc. We both did things we wouldn't have, had we talked. Our communications have vastly improved, but we're still nervous with our feelings and easy to cause pain.

But every day, we get better and love each other dearly.

Will we do kinky stuff, hell yes! With others? Don't know - we'll don't care about that yet. We have other issues to work out first. We both are making life changing improvements because of our desire for each other, problems that we both ignored for far too long. Our kinky friends also support us too.