[GRITS]

Originally Posted by GRITS

You have to understand WHAT "select" friends are. : >>> Selected by us,- people we have known a while,(there are 5 select friends)--- must be married so they don;t brag to protect themselves, ----know the rules and if they don't abide, they won't be back for a good thing,- they are the ONLY folks allowed to play with, ---- its not easy to find select friends, not everyone obviously would want to participate, plus just asking the question can cause problems. So as you can see finding "select" friends is a job in itself, and requires patience and research... we have and do both.. thats why I can do things like this weekend w/o hubby around. We never comprimise or think/decide w/ our libido--->>>>- BTW- there are 2-women "select" friends for hubby.

just a reminder from an old post,, WHAT select friends are... I have 5 males, Hubby has 2 females.