[clitty]

Yep.. 12 days later of my train crash.

Going to Al Anon meetings have saved my sanity - I've gone almost daily - even when I wasn't planning to. Got the "wife" to an AA meeting, but she was supposed to do weekly.

Serious people, if you are living with an Alcoholic or you THINK you do - go to an Al Anon meeting. Even if your wife, husband, father, mother, son, daughter, etc.

It would have helped saved my marriage along with couples counseling, which I had suggest to the wife a few months before.

I'm torn between wanting her back (She says she doesn't want me) to getting many new fresh fish from the ocean.

I am NOT open to any serious relationship anyway. I'll keep my door open my wife if reconciliation is possible.
My trust in her has been destroyed. AA and counseling is required. But dammit it, I want to date her.

But she's about to be SUPER pissed at me really really soon.