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Originally Posted by twokings
My advice, dont take advice about relationships from swingers, porn addicts or pornsite voyeurs!
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Amen to that.
In the UK there is a fantastic relationship counselling service called, not surprisingly, RELATE. I know folks who got great help with their teenage kids problems, others with sex problems and the like. I know they also offer advice to people going through a break-up. All UK reader take note - this is a great service if you need it.
I just looked on the net for anything similar on Clitty's side of the Atlantic but did not see anything. I guess the availability of paid professional counselling puts paid to anything voluntary. Nevertheless, I suggest you seek out some good relationship counselling. Not to save the marriage which appears to be history but to save yourself.
Remember, the most important person in this break up does not have any choice about it and it is a duty you have to put your kids interests before your own and your wife's.
I wish you a better 2016 that you have in 2015. It could hardly be worse so that was an easy one. But I do wish you strength through the darkness and the self-doubt which will undoubtedly be occurring. Good luck.