Such is life, and so many things can happen unintentionally! But a secret never fails when kept in the head. Writing down on paper, or on a file in a 3.5 diskette (as a diary of sorts) can bite one in the worst place when years later a jealous wife finds it.
It doesn't matter that it happened long before one was married, and hubby was keeping it as a keepsake
Years later am mourning all my collections of legal photos, and VHS that went up in huge bonfire......I did tell my lady before I was married I was free with my fun, and had been swinging for years! I guess seeing and hearing about the fun in her eyes was much different. I learned my lesson very well!
Mind you I have been happily married for 25 years, and nowadays she's sorry she did the bonfire....lol
No matter, those memories are still alive in my head (even with the horrible memory loss from wreck in 2000)
he he he
Rafa