I don't have many of these, and the ones I have are not very detailed. But...here's some repost of such stories such as I have them.
When she was still just a sophomore or junior in high school and she had a 19 yo boyfriend who had his own apartment. She started school early, so she must have been 16 or so. She told me she used to go there and party with him and his friends. No details about what was happening, but it doesn't take much imagination. Apparently, she spent so much time there her parents threatened to call the authorities.
One time after we'd been married for about 12 years we were doing some cleaning and going through stuff. I found a stack of photographic slides. Those of you old enough remember that you didn't always get prints. Sometimes you just got slides. I didn't recall any slides from anywhere in our marriages so I picked them up and started looking at them. They chronologically documented her descent from sobriety (I think) to passed out drunk during a drinking game. Sorry, no nudes or topless. Notoriously hard to get in those days. The interesting part is that I didn't recognize a single soul in the pictures, and I knew a LOT of her best friends in college. And nobody had ever mentioned a separate group of partying friends. So I asked her, "what is this about and who are these people?" She just got real annoyed and said, "That's just some grad students I used to party with in college." I always knew she had party hard in college and I suspected that there was some group action along the way. And I think I found the group.
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